As an empty nester, I’ve learned the power of me-time. After years of raising children and managing the responsibilities that come with being a mom, it feels like a luxury to finally carve out moments for myself. At 57, I’ve come to cherish the freedom and empowerment that solo adventures bring—especially those that allow me to relax, recharge, and rediscover joy in the little things.
This is exactly what I experienced during a recent solo day at the Andaz Scottsdale Resort & Bungalows, thanks to a day pass I purchased through ResortPass. If you’re wondering how to blend luxury, relaxation, and the beauty of solo living, let me take you through my day of poolside bliss.
If you’re an empty nester looking to escape the confines of your routine without the commitment of an overnight stay, ResortPass is a game-changer. I stumbled upon this incredible service that offers day passes to exclusive resorts, and let me tell you, it’s been a total revelation. The beauty of a ResortPass is that it allows you to enjoy the luxuries of a high-end resort (like Andaz Scottsdale) for a fraction of the cost of booking a full stay.
For me, as someone who loves solo adventures but also values flexibility, ResortPass provides the perfect balance of indulgence and spontaneity. A day by the pool without the long-term commitment was exactly what I needed to clear my head and reconnect with myself.
After years of being “on” as a mom and a professional, I’ve learned that true relaxation is about creating space to just be—without any distractions. The Andaz Scottsdale offers a serene yet vibrant environment that’s the perfect backdrop for embracing solo moments.
I chose a comfy lounge chair near the pool, tucked under the shade of a tree, and settled in. The moment I got comfortable, I felt my worries fade away. There’s something magical about the stillness of the resort. The soft sounds of water, the desert breeze, and the beautiful surroundings create the perfect atmosphere for reflecting and unwinding.
With a refreshing cocktail in hand, I allowed myself to do nothing but enjoy the warmth of the sun and the sense of peace that only comes from having a solo moment.
I’ve always believed that it’s the little things—like taking in the stunning desert views or indulging in a quiet afternoon by the water—that remind me how much beauty there is in solo experiences. Whether you’re savoring a drink, reading a book, or just staring at the clouds, there’s no wrong way to enjoy a poolside day alone.
This poolside experience was not just about taking a break; it was about embracing the joy that comes from being alone with your thoughts. As an empty nester, solo adventures have become my personal way of reconnecting with myself and rediscovering what I enjoy. When you step away from the day-to-day routine, it’s amazing how you start to hear your own voice again and remember the things that make you feel alive.
Solo adventures aren’t just about travel—they’re about cultivating a lifestyle that’s uniquely yours. From dining alone with confidence to traveling to a resort without a companion, I’ve learned that it’s not only okay to enjoy my own company; it’s necessary for my well-being.
We all have our reasons for feeling pulled in different directions—whether it’s taking care of family, juggling work, or just managing life’s everyday demands. But as an empty nester, I realized that self-care is not a luxury; it’s a necessity. A solo poolside day is an ideal way to nourish yourself, not just physically, but emotionally and mentally too.
Here are a few reasons why you should consider a solo escape like mine:
Space for Reflection: Whether you’re celebrating the end of a chapter (like me, as an empty nester) or just needing time away from everything, a day by the pool is an opportunity to reflect and find clarity.
Reclaim Your Freedom: Solo adventures are all about creating your own space and schedule. No need to consult anyone about what to do or when. It’s entirely up to you.
Affordable Luxury: With ResortPass, I didn’t need to book a night at the resort. I got to enjoy all the amenities of a luxury resort without the hefty price tag.
As a woman who’s spent the better part of her life being responsible for others, embracing a solo day like this one was incredibly refreshing. It was a reminder that I can still embrace joy, luxury, and relaxation on my own terms.
The ultimate solo adventure is discovering the freedom to be yourself—without compromise, without guilt, and without hesitation. A poolside day at Andaz Scottsdale was just one of many experiences that remind me why I’m committed to embracing the empty nest chapter with confidence.
Solo experiences, like a day spent lounging by the pool or having a quiet dinner alone, are all about taking ownership of your time and energy. This moment of self-care was a beautiful way for me to continue my solo glow-up journey.
So, here’s to taking time for yourself, to finding peace in solitude, and to discovering new joys in the things that make you feel alive.
If you’re looking to embrace solo adventures, whether it’s a spa day, a weekend getaway, or even a quiet afternoon at home, remember this: you deserve it. Start your solo journey today—just like I did.
Be You, Love You, Forgive You.
~Bettina