What is Dating?

what is dating? H as anyone stopped to think about what dating will look like after Covid? Yes, I know there are dating sites that actually might work better now because of social distancing                  and shelter-in-place requirements. But I am asking a real ‘deep’ question, what will […]

Single vs Divorced

single vs divorced T his is an interesting topic for me. There, on that form, they are asking your relationship status. Do I mark the box divorced or single? I recently saw choices that read,                 single (never married) and divorced. The last time I checked, if you […]

What is cooking anyway

what is cooking anyway T onight was challenging coming up with something to eat for dinner. I did not want to cook and I could not decide what I wanted to order. While I am mostly against                 cooking since I have become an empty nester, going out and grabbing […]

When you can raise children and not plants

when you can raise children and not plants D on’t know what the opposite of a green thumb is but whatever it is, I am it. Once in a while I will dabble with plants, but it had been some time since I really devoted some                  time […]

Yikes, I fell off the wagon

yikes, I fell off the wagon s o, I had to look up this term, because I wanted to ensure I was using it correctly. You see, I was on my way to returning to the bad habit of mediocrity. Actually, I was there                  for 4 days. While I was there, […]

Let’s face it, I am not dating

let’s face it, I am not dating Y ’all I cannot do this dating app thing. No matter how I spin it, turn it, or flip it. It is not for me. It is kind of like my dislike for milk. Like seriously, my hatred for milk. I have                 […]

Life is generous and unpredictable

Life is generous and unpredictable I t has been awhile since I have written, partly because I often find it challenging to come up with content and partly because I suffered an immense loss.                  My Nana passed away on 13 August 2020. She was my paternal grandmother and […]

me

me I I am working at building my self-esteem. Yes, I am confident professionally! I can outwork everyone in my team and department.                  I put in the extra work to ensure it is done more than well and I will work more hours. I am confident in […]