I’m Bettina Johnson, and I’m so glad you’re here. If you’ve landed on this page, you’re probably an empty nester, a grown woman who’s navigated a few life chapters already… and now you’re ready to write your own next one—with boldness, style, and a touch of smoke and sass.
Here, is your digital sanctuary for:
💨 Cigars & Confidence – No gatekeeping here. We’re demystifying cigar lounges, rituals, and pairings for women ready to puff with purpose.
✈️ Solo Travel & Adventures – Whether it’s a brunch reservation for one or a luxury solo staycation, I’m sharing it all.
👠 Fashion, Beauty & Grown-Woman Glam – Style doesn’t retire when the nest empties. We evolve.
💬 Real Talk & Soft Life Reflections – Because this stage of life deserves softness and substance.
Because this isn’t just a newsletter. It’s a movement.
A space for women over 45 to rediscover their confidence, reclaim their joy, and glow the hell up—solo.
I’ve been an empty nester for 9 years and single since 2010. And while I’m not in a relationship, I’m certainly not void of opportunity. I’ve learned how to enjoy my own company—and now I want to help you do the same, with elegance, laughter, and the occasional bourbon neat.
You’ll get fresh posts in your inbox filled with:
Lifestyle tips
Solo dining and travel stories
Digital goodies and guides
And a whole lot of encouragement to live unapologetically.
Sound like your vibe?
Great. Pull up a seat, pour something smooth, and let’s break out—together.
Be You, Love You, Forgive You!
— Bettina
Confidence lives here